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Every now and then, someone comes into my world who reminds me exactly why I do this work.Craig is one of those people.Before we met, Craig was in a dark place. ​ He had recently got out of prison.Was recovering from alcohol abuse. Had no direction, no confidence and no clarity.Craig recently left me a review from our work together.I want you to read it so you can hear what he had to say in his own words.<figure id="figure-l77o678l1kmi2cvau2" class=""><img id="l77o678l1kmi2cvau2" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/22uSehi0UsU4urShwtCdDbr8zApwTkB0UqGgCR77XPZjD32DEB424a1r4BGojeKP.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/22uSehi0UsU4urShwtCdDbr8zApwTkB0UqGgCR77XPZjD32DEB424a1r4BGojeKP.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>&nbsp;In his own words:“When I approached Josh a little over a year ago I was at the lowest point in my life… I had constant anxiety, no direction in life, had zero self-confidence, was constantly doing things I didn’t want to do and was very unhealthy.”Most people never pull themselves out of a hole like that.Not because they’re "broken" but because they don’t have a system that works (or someone willing to call them out on the patterns they can’t see).Craig showed up ready to do the work.In fact, he is one of the most committed people I have ever seen come through my program.His success was inevitable BECAUSE of that attitude (read this again).I taught him the Mind Launch Method and he followed it with determination.Let me explain how Craig got his life back...<h2>The First Breakthrough: Regulating the Nervous System</h2>The Mind Launch Method always starts here.Craig committed to the daily habits that calm your nervous system and create a sense of safety within the body.He learned how to:<ul><li>slow down his reactions</li><li>stop living in fight-or-flight</li><li>build consistency with simple, repeatable routines</li><li>create internal safety instead of reaching for alcohol or external escapes. This was the foundation.</li></ul>The first piece of getting his life back.Because when your nervous system calms down, you can finally think clearly againYou can make better decisions.You can see options you were blind to before.Craig put in the reps and it showed.<h2>The Second Breakthrough: Reprogramming His Mind and Identity</h2>This is the part most people underestimate.If you don’t change the way you see yourself, you’ll always fall back into the old patterns.Craig didn’t just learn meditation or mindset hacks.He learned how to upgrade the internal operating system running his life.As he put it:“Working with Josh for your mental health is like getting into a helicopter and going wherever you want to go instead of going in circles blindly.”He stopped seeing himself as the anxious, unhealthy, self-sabotaging version of who he’d been.He rebuilt identity from the inside out:<ul><li>new beliefs</li><li>new internal language</li><li>new self-trust</li><li>new direction</li><li>new standards This is the part where life starts to open up.</li></ul>Where momentum kicks in.Where confidence stops being forced… and starts becoming who you are.<h2>The Final Breakthrough: Resetting His Life</h2>This is where the Mind Launch Method comes full circle.Regulate your nervous system → Reprogram your mind → Reset your life.Craig stepped into the third phase by making decisions aligned with the man he was becoming.<ul><li>He changed his habits.</li><li>He changed his health.</li><li>He changed his relationships.</li><li>He changed how he shows up every day. And he changed his entire future.</li></ul>His words say it best:“To say I have done a 180 since then is an understatement. I am happier than I’ve ever been in my life. I have genuine confidence not fuelled by alcohol. I am more calm than ever and have zero unnecessary anxiety. My health and lifestyle habits are a priority now, not an option. I put myself first in all situations and have a clear and concise direction to where I’m going in my life and I’m excited for the future!”This is what happens when you have a system that actually works.Craig didn’t just “improve.”He reset his entire life.<h2>If You Want that Reset, Here’s the First Step</h2>Craig didn’t get lucky.He followed a proven method.If you’re done with anxiety, done with the chaos, done with repeating the same cycles year after year, then start where he started:👉 <a data-mce-href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au" href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Watch the free Mind Launch Method video on my website.​</a>It will walk you through the exact 3-step system Craig used to turn his life around and show you how to start applying it today.Your life can shift faster than you think.But you have to take the first step.Go watch the free Mind Launch Method training now.You got this!With Optimism,Josh

How Craig Got His Life Back

Hey guys, it's Josh here, and in this blog I'm going to unload all of my meditation secrets for you. I’ve been meditating since I was 17 years old, and it has literally been the thing that saved my life. I’m not just saying that, I really believe meditation saved my life. That’s why I’m so passionate about teaching people how to meditate properly now.You’ve probably tried meditation before. Maybe you're interested in it. And I’ve heard all the excuses under the sun about why meditation "doesn’t work".People say:<ul><li>“I just can’t sit still.”</li><li>“Every time I meditate I can’t focus my mind.”</li><li>“I start to feel frustrated.”</li><li>“I tried it for a couple of weeks and it was good, but then it didn’t work because I wasn’t consistent.” I’ve heard everything.</li></ul>People don’t understand how to detach themselves from their thoughts. They get uncomfortable feelings in their body or irritated and they don’t know how to switch that off. And because they don’t know how to turn it off, they think something is wrong with them, or that meditation doesn’t work for them specifically.And all of that is bullshit.In this video, which I had no idea how long it was going to go for, I’m telling you exactly what you’re doing wrong and how to fix it.<figure id="figure-ww1vneda9smhwrowzm"><iframe id="ww1vneda9smhwrowzm" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/A8T6U4CGARg" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" allowfullscreen="" data-url="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A8T6U4CGARg" data-corners="default" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/A8T6U4CGARg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></iframe></figure><h2>Part I - My Story: How Meditation Became My Turning Point</h2>A Volatile Teenage Life Let me share my personal story with meditation so you have some context about where I’ve come from and why I’m qualified to talk about this.When I was 17 I started meditating, but before that I had a pretty volatile teenage life. My childhood was great. My parents were together, we had a traditional setup, dad working, having a business, mum taking care of us. It was good.Then my parents split up when I was around 11 or 12.I’m the eldest of four siblings, and that’s when things started to go downhill. Dad was an alcoholic, still is, and was violent towards my mother.So Mum left him.They both went into downward spirals, and I was 11 or 12 with younger siblings.I didn’t take that well.I became rebellious. I had free range. No one could control me. I would put my parents against each other. They weren’t amicable and they weren’t a united front so I realised I could play my cards in the situation.I started hanging around kids who were drinking and smoking. I got in trouble at school. I got in trouble with the police.I was basically running amuck from around 13. I started drinking at 14, smoking weed at 15, getting into drugs around 16. By 17 and 18 I was into all of it.The Moment Everything Shifted When I was 17, I had a turning point. I realised I was starting to struggle with my mental health. The way I was thinking wasn’t how I wanted to be thinking. I realised I was on a bad path.I looked at my parents... alcoholism, relationship problems, both on medication for mental health. Mum anxious, Dad depressed. And as a 17-year-old kid I thought, I do not want to go down that path.So I tried to figure things out. I was smoking a lot of weed, looking online at spirituality and consciousness. I stumbled across a blog post about meditation that basically said:“If you start meditating in your teens, by your mid-20s you’ll be an absolute superhuman. You’ll have superpowers.”At the time I thought that sounded pretty good.I didn’t want medication for mental health. I didn’t want to be an alcoholic. I didn’t want to struggle with addictions for the rest of my life. I was going to try this meditation thing and see if I could get some superpowers.That was when I was 17 and that was the turning point for everything.I’m 32 now. No addictions. Beautiful wife. Two kids. I run a business helping people with anxiety, stress, and mental health. I work with people who have addictions, anxiety, depression, emotional problems. The thing that was my pain back then became my purpose now.I feel blessed, and I attribute a lot of this to that turning point.<h2>Part II - The Early Days: Sitting, Breathing, and Staying With It</h2>Awkward Beginnings When I started meditating, I’d go to the beach. I’d sit down, cross my legs, put my hands in my lap. I remember being awkward about my hands and thinking "where do I put them?"On my lap? On my legs? I never knew.But I’d sit there, close my eyes, and start breathing. That was it.I’d pay attention to my breath and try to observe my thoughts.<ul><li>It was frustrating.</li><li>I’d get lost in thoughts.</li><li>I’d think random shit.</li><li>I’d be scared someone would attack me while my eyes were closed.</li><li>I’d be frustrated that I wasn’t present.</li></ul>I had all those experiences, and they’re so common.Choosing Not to Quit The difference was, I didn’t let it stop me.I thought, “Okay, I’m going to get superpowers. I’ve just got to keep meditating.” So I did. I tried focusing on my breath. I tried coming back to presence.I’d get lost in thoughts and aggressively pull myself back thinking,&nbsp;“You idiot, you should be meditating. You should be present.”Over time, I learned to be nicer to myself.To bring myself back gently.Meditation isn’t about perfection. It’s about practice, consistency, devotion, determination.Sometimes I’d go 10 minutes without becoming present once. Other times I’d feel elated, expansive, full of love, peaceful in my body.I didn’t know what was happening, but it felt good.Seeing the World Differently After meditation, I’d ride my bike to work. The trees became brighter. The greens more vibrant. The blue sky more beautiful. The water sparkled. It felt like I was tripping... but I was sober.My perception became heightened. I was seeing the world through an alive radiance instead of dullness.And the only thing that created that shift was 10 minutes a day, sitting with myself, not giving up.<h2>Part III - The First Big Lesson: What You Resist Persists</h2>Most people let uncomfortable feelings stop them.Fear. Distraction. Frustration. Irritation.They think it means something is wrong with them.It doesn’t.These feelings come up so you can learn to manage that part of your experience. Being frustrated, scared, distracted, that's normal. But people want to shut it out. They suppress it. And suppressed emotions stick around forever.The paradox is this:What you resist persists. What you allow dissolves.When you allow the discomfort, accept it, include it, observe it without making it mean something, it dissolves.This alone can change your entire life.<h2>Part IV - Single-Pointed Focus: Training Your Mind Like a Muscle</h2>After I built some consistency, I started researching more techniques.One of the most powerful was what I call single-pointed focus meditation.Focusing on the Third Eye I’d focus all my attention on one point, the third eye.I didn’t understand what it meant. Still don’t fully. People online talk about activating it, pineal gland, spiritual awakening... maybe. I don’t know.But I do know this:When I focused on that point strongly enough, everything else dissolved into a massive black expansive nothingness. The internal and external world disappeared and I was there with a single point of focus.It felt:<ul><li>Free</li><li>Peaceful</li><li>Open</li><li>Incredible It was liberating.</li></ul>It’s like staring at one star in the night sky. If you focus hard enough, all the other stars disappear. Try it. It’s crazy.Training Focus (Even if You're “ADHD as Fuck”) This meditation trained my focus. People say, “I’ve got ADHD, I can’t meditate.” Bullshit.I’m not diagnosed, but if you hang around me long enough you’d probably say, “You’re fucking ADHD, brother.”Some things I hyper-fixate on. Other things I can’t focus on at all. But attention is trainable.Meditation is the gym for your mind.<h2>Part V - Sensory Presence: Using the Body to Anchor Awareness</h2>I also started noticing my senses were gateways into presence.Breathing The inhale and the exhale hold the secrets of polarity in life.Feeling The sun on my skin. The wind blowing across my body. Feeling helped me to become present in the moment.Listening Really listening without creating a story.Most people hear a sound and immediately create a narrative:“This is fucking my meditation.” “Kids are yelling, I can’t do this.” “A helicopter ruined it.” It’s all mental story. It’s all bullshit.If you stay with the raw sense, hearing, feeling, breathing, you drop into presence.Your mind can be creative or destructive depending on the stories you attach.<h2>Part VI - Mind–Body Connection: Real Nervous System Regulation</h2>Most people live entirely in their head, disconnected from their body and emotions.Meditation helped me:<ul><li>Connect to my body</li><li>Feel my emotions</li><li>Build coherence between mind and body People call this nervous system regulation. But real regulation isn’t about external circumstances. It’s internal. It’s the connection between mind and body, calmness and awareness.</li></ul>Eventually, you realise something even deeper:You’re not the mind and you’re not the body.<h2>Part VII - The Ultimate Secret: You Are Awareness Itself</h2>Meditation showed me:You are not your thoughts. You are not your emotions. You are not your body. You are not your beliefs. You are not your identity.Those things are experiences, not who you are.You are the awareness observing those experiences. Awareness sits back. It watches. It sees. It knows.Thoughts, body, emotions, sensations, they’re all secondary. Your consciousness is primary.When you sustain awareness, suffering dissolves.Problems dissolve.You enter peace. You experience enlightenment, not necessarily permanently, but as a real, felt state.We Come Into the World EnlightenedI believe babies come into the world in pure consciousness, pure "is-ness". Then conditioning piles on.To be “born again,” like Jesus said, is to rediscover that state within yourself.Not as an idea, but as an experience.<h2>Part VIII- The Little Self and the Big Self</h2> Meditation taught me something profound about who I am.I call this concept, "the little self and the Big Self"The little self This is Josh Holliday. Your name. Your identity. Your personality. Your story. Your beliefs.Not wrong, just limited.The Big Self Unlimited awareness. Connection to everything. Pure consciousness. No separation. Unity. At a physical level, you look separate from everything else.At a deeper level, you’re not. We’re just vibrating energy formed into matter.When you operate from Big Self:Fear dissolves Threat dissolves The fear of death dissolvesBecause you realise Death is just an exhale and Life is the inhale. Both are necessary parts of the process.This is where spirituality and science meet.<h2>Part IX - Discipline: Becoming a Disciple of the Practice</h2>When I talk about discipline, I'm not talking David Goggins, Alex Hormozi, hardcore army-style discipline.I’m talking about discipline as being a disciple.Meditation is something you learn from. You commit to it. You devote to it. You let it teach you.I’ve been a disciple of meditation for 15 years.That’s the only reason I can talk about this the way I can.I don’t need to believe it because I know.<h2>Part X - Life Lessons and Overcoming Struggles </h2>Meditation has helped me:Overcome addictions and anxiety Develop self-awareness Face fears and build resilience Navigate heartbreak Get clarity on my purpose Transform my life My path hasn’t been straight. At around 23–25, I went through more drinking and drugs after a breakup... even after years of meditation. I struggled. But I didn’t give up.And meditation gave me the discipline and internal strength to overcome that too.<h2>Part XI - Final Message: Don’t Quit</h2> If you struggle with anxiety, depression or addiction, meditation can be a game changer for you. Not by magically fixing everything, but by giving you clarity, awareness, and connection to your internal guidance system.This journey won’t feel like a straight clean line.It hasn’t for me.But what matters is this: You don’t give up.The younger version of me didn’t give up, even when things were messy, and I’m grateful for him every day.With Optimism, JoshP.S. If you'd like my help to overcome your anxiety by mastering meditation, <a data-mce-href="https://www.mindlaunch.com.au" href="https://www.mindlaunch.com.au" target="_blank" rel="noopener">there's a video here</a> that explains how my coaching program works.Check that out and if it sounds like it would help you, book a call with me and I'll talk to you soon.

All of my meditation secrets (mega blog)

80% of the people I work with are stressing themselves out over things that haven’t even happened yet.They’re stuck in their head overthinking, overanalysing and getting overwhelmed with all of this shit that’s not even real.A lot of spiritual teachers talk about how “the mind is the source of all suffering” and it’s true.You only need to look at your own experience to confirm this theory.We’ve all had those times where we have worked ourselves up over nothing.It’s like you’re imagining some fantasy (or nightmare) that's completely delusional.Now you might have heard people talk about how “being delusional” is actually a great way to become successful in your life.You’ve got to be a dreamer.Let your imagination run wild.Be creative!And all of that is true.The problem is when your imagination is out of control.So you’re not CHOOSING what you’re being delusional about.You’re not CONSCIOUS of what’s occupying your mind.You’re having these random thoughts and ideas pop into your head UNCONSCIOUSLY.Because if you were actually conscious… you wouldn’t choose to be full of doubt, worry and fear would you?I don’t think so…This is the most common mental loop that keeps people trapped in a cycle of anxiety.Worrying about a future that hasn’t even happened yet which creates an experience of not feeling safe in the present moment&nbsp;<a data-mce-href="https://youtu.be/5PD9P8S6tyg" href="https://youtu.be/5PD9P8S6tyg" target="_blank" rel="noopener">How to stop freaking out about stuff that hasn’t even happened yet</a><figure id="figure-6e38ed10ldmhu1gbhr" class="selected"><iframe id="6e38ed10ldmhu1gbhr" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/5PD9P8S6tyg" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" allowfullscreen="" data-url="https://youtu.be/5PD9P8S6tyg" data-corners="default" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/5PD9P8S6tyg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></iframe></figure><h2>Anxiety &amp; Your Imagination</h2>Now when it comes to anxiety, a lot of people struggle with the physical symptoms that come along with it.The racing heart, the shortness of the breath, that sick feeling in your stomach.&nbsp;Anxiety can be a very physical experience.But if you look a bit deeper into it, you’ll find that the physical symptoms are being driven by a mind that is totally out of control with fears, doubts and worries.It’s your imagination that is out of control.Which can then create a loop of anxiety between the mind and the body.Your imagination is actually one of the most powerful functions of your mind.Your imagination is the same mechanism that allows you to dream, create, and visualize what you want in life.It’s what allows an athlete to see the finish line before the race even begins.It’s what helps a business owner build something from nothing.But when that same imagination starts focusing on worst-case scenarios, it becomes destructive instead of creative.It can trick your body into believing danger is near, even when you’re sitting safely in bed.That’s why your heart races, your stomach tightens, and your mind spins in circles.&nbsp;Your body doesn’t know the difference between imagination and reality.It just responds to whatever story your mind is fixed on.<h2>You’re NOT Broken</h2>This does NOT mean you are broken.Most people assume having anxiety means there is something wrong with you… that’s not true.The real problem isn’t that “you’re broken”, it’s that you’ve been operating off out-dated survival programming and it’s become embodied in your nervous system.And most people don’t like hearing this or can’t even fathom it, but you have been living unconsciously.It’s like you’ve been on autopilot, just “getting through it”, just coping and just surviving.That’s because we were never taught how to use our mind properly or take creative control of the imagination… it’s not something that’s encouraged at school.Instead, it’s like, “follow our instructions and do what we say”.The moment you become aware that you CAN consciously control the direction of your thoughts, everything starts to shift.<h2>Presence Is the Medicine</h2>The fastest way to stop freaking out over shit that hasn’t happened yet is to become present.Presence isn’t some woo-woo spiritual idea.&nbsp;It’s the most practical skill you can learn if you want peace, clarity, and control over your inner experience.The reason Eckhart Tolle’s book The Power Of Now was so successful, is because we all know we need to live more in “the now”.When you’re present, you’re in the here and now…&nbsp;The only place life is actually happening.You can do this by connecting to your senses.You take a deep breath.You feel your hand on your heart.You can notice that, right now, you’re safe.And in that moment, all of your worries dissolve because they were never real to begin with.<h2>The Nervous System</h2>From a physiological perspective, anxiety is your nervous system reacting to perceived threat.&nbsp;The keyword here is perceived.Your thoughts send electro-chemical signals through your body.The thought “I’m in danger” will activate stress chemicals even when there’s no actual threat nearby.Your body then feels like it’s in danger because the mind is so intimately connected to the body.Your heart rate increases.&nbsp;Cortisol rises.&nbsp;Breathing shortens.The body doesn’t check for evidence, it just listens to the mind.But when you become present, you can train yourself to send the opposite signal: “I’m safe.”This one shift can completely change your biochemistry.&nbsp;The nervous system regulates, cortisol drops, and you begin to feel calm again.That’s why presence isn’t just some spiritual concept, it’s the key to nervous system regulation.<h2>Regaining Control of Your Imagination</h2>Once you’ve learned how to stay grounded in the present moment, you can start regaining your imagination as the powerful creative tool it was designed to be.You can continue letting it run wild with thoughts of doubt and worry, or you can focus and intentionally imagine the kind of life you actually want to be living.That’s how you shift from Anxiety to Alignment (my signature anxiety course)The same imagination that once created fear, doubt and worry can now create vision, purpose, and possibility.It’s all about getting present and training your ability to focus on what you want (instead of what you don’t want).I’ve helped 300+ people to get free from anxiety and find inner peace by mastering their mindset with the Mind Launch Method.If you want to learn how it works and how I can help, there’s a 5-minute explainer video on my website where I teach you the method, <a data-mce-href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au" href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au" target="_blank" rel="noopener">you can check it out here.</a>Finally, if you have been struggling with anxiety, overthinking or freaking yourself out about shit that hasn’t happened yet, I want you to know, you can get that under control.If you want my help with that, go check out the video on my website and book a call with me.You got this.With Optimism,Josh

How to stop freaking out about stuff that hasn’t even happened yet

Hey guys. It's Josh here. Today we're gonna talk about ​how to process your emotions so you don't keep doing dumb shit.​I make these blogs and videos with ideas and concepts that are present in my consciousness. I don't try to force them too much and I'm not trying to have too much control over the strategy or what I'm going to make at any given time.I just allow the ideas to emerge from my experience in life and I tend to make this educational content purely based off what is present for me at the time. There's a lesson in this that you might not understand, but one that's very important for processing emotions. What people tend to do with their emotional experience is they tend to control it or fight against it or resist it.This never works and only adds more pressure and suffering.<a data-mce-href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2lC0HKBuCcU&amp;t=181s" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2lC0HKBuCcU&amp;t=181s" target="_blank" rel="noopener">​Use this process to STOP being emotionally reactive​</a><figure id="figure-wjptfy8mqjmhoha10e" class=""><iframe id="wjptfy8mqjmhoha10e" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/2lC0HKBuCcU" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" allowfullscreen="" data-url="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2lC0HKBuCcU&amp;t=181s" data-corners="default" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/2lC0HKBuCcU" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></iframe></figure><h2>The Problem with Control and Avoidance</h2>People tend to avoid talking about certain things in life.For example, some people tend to avoid talking about the things they have shame around or the things that they have guilt around because they don't wanna bring other people down or be "negative". So they avoid those things that are "negative" and they only talk about things that are "positive".You see this so often in men especially... men who suppress their emotions and are really suppressing their experience. They do it generally because they don't wanna "bring anyone down", you'll hear things like, "Oh, I don't want to talk about that," or, "We don't need to go into that," or, "Don't worry about it".They try to cut off a part of the experience that they're having and they do it through some warped sense of nobility.It's like, "I'm not gonna talk about it 'cause I don't wanna bring other people down." But what it's actually doing is being dishonest and withholding certain aspects of the truth of what they are experiencing.This is called emotional suppression.And if it goes unchecked, it can lead to addictions, it can lead to relationship breakdowns, it can lead to health issues and it can even lead to suicide.It can be a real downward spiral and it all starts with suppressing the experience that you're having and trying to control the experience that your having instead of allowing yourself to have the experience.<h2>The Cost of Controlling the Emotional Experience</h2>I see this so often with the people I work with. People generally come to work with me because they have anxiety. So let's talk about anxiety.Again, people wanna avoid the experience of anxiety. They're often trying to avoid symptoms, they're trying to resist it, they're trying to control it or they're trying to fight against it. They're saying, "I don't want that experience and I only want this experience of being calm or happy" or whatever it is.But that is not how you will overcome your anxiety.&nbsp;<blockquote>You need to STOP forcing, controlling, and resisting and START accepting, allowing, and flowing with life.</blockquote>Just like I make these blogs and videos in a flow of consciousness.You need to learn to live with this flow of consciousness because that is how you will stop suppressing your emotions, and when you stop suppressing your emotions, you start to feel lighter, you start to feel clearer, you start to feel free.<h2>The Link Between Honesty and Emotional Freedom</h2>It comes back to a conversation around honesty because people will often tell me that they want to be communicating clearly and openly, they wanna be strong speakers, confident speakers, and yet they can't even be open about their experience in life.Being a strong speaker, being someone who's confident, being someone who can process your emotions means that you need to be someone who has the ability to allow and accept the full spectrum of your emotional experience.<h2>Addictions and the Avoidance of Feeling</h2>Now, let me just give another example which is about addictions because people who have addictions... let's just say they're smoking weed or they're drinking alcohol or something like that, those substances are making them feel peaceful, happy, joy.So they're associating these substances with those feelings and they like those feelings.They wanna have those feelings, those are nice feelings to have. And so what they're doing is they're doing these substances to get to that feeling.At the same time, they're using them to get away from the negative feelings that they don't want, like the boredom or the shame or the feeling of being anxious or depressed.They're trying to avoid those "negative" feelings and they're trying to only have the "positive" feelings.That's not how being a human works.&nbsp;As a human, you have a full range of emotions and if you wanna feel more peace and happiness and joy and love, you actually need to learn how to feel the other end of the spectrum as well.Because if you're constantly trying to avoid that negative aspect of your life, what you're actually going to do is you're actually gonna bring more of that...&nbsp;<h2>What You Resist, Persists</h2>I was just talking to a client about this today.&nbsp;He was telling me, "I don't wanna talk about these things because I don't wanna bring you down or I don't wanna bring anyone else down."But then what happens when when you suppress a certain part of your experience, you keep it kind of stuck in you.<blockquote>Emotion is energy in motion, so your emotions determine your energy.&nbsp;</blockquote>So when you are trying to suppress a certain emotion, you're trying to suppress this energy, it actually starts to build up in your system.When you suppress these emotions, that suppression ends up leading you to drugs, alcohol or other forms of coping.In my clients case, it was all of the above and that also ends up building up anger, resentment andfrustration inside.This ends up with anger problems and next minute, he's blowing up.So he wants to avoid making others feel bad, but he ends up being having these aggressive blowups.So you can see, he's trying to avoid that experience 'cause he's trying to be nice, but in the end, he actually ends up with more of that experience and in a more extreme case.<h2>The Cycle of Resistance and Avoidance</h2>Now this is applicable for pretty much everyone.&nbsp;What you try to resist or avoid will only come back with more force.So that's why it's not about trying to avoid those experiences, but it's about taking responsibility for your experience.He also said, he doesn't wanna be someone who's constantly complaining or constantly bringing others down.When it comes to complaining, what you'll notice is that you will complain because you will put the blame on someone else.When you stop blaming others and you start taking responsibility for your experience, that is when you will stop complaining because you are taking responsibility for your experience.<h2>Responsibility and Ownership</h2>This applies to your emotions as well. Instead of avoiding them, you take responsibility for them, you take ownership of them, you take ownership of your experience.And when you do that, that is when you will be able to process your emotions easily.That is when you will be able to speak confidently and clearly, because you're not in your head trying to figure out how to say the right thing, but you're just saying whatever the thing is that is present and on your mind.<h2>Flow, Presence, and Acceptance</h2>I've made over 200 videos on Youtube now and I never use a script.I just speak and I just allow the words to come out. And people need to learn how to do this with their emotions.You don't necessarily need to allow your emotions to come out in a way where you're just seeking validation, but you need to allow them to be present and you need to allow yourself to come into a state of acceptance with them so that you can process them internally without reacting to them.Because when you start reacting, that's when there's a problem. You don't need to react.You can actually process your emotions by allowing and accepting your emotions in the first place, not trying to avoid them.And by realizing there's nothing wrong with them, it's perfectly okay and normal for you to feel the full spectrum of emotions.And when you actually give yourself permission to do that, you will find that you will actually start having less of those negative emotions and you'll have more positive emotions 'cause you'll be in a state of acceptance.<h2>The Power of Neutrality</h2>Being in a state of acceptance and neutrality is actually a much higher state of consciousness than, avoidance, anxiety or constantly worrying about what you're experiencing.Instead, when you come up to a place of neutrality and acceptance, it's a much higher level of consciousness, you'll find that you're actually feeling a lot more peaceful, a lot more happy, and a lot more present.<h2>Applying This to Your Life</h2>So, how do you actually take all of this and apply it to your own life?Well, something like a simple morning meditation practice where you practice sitting with yourself, you practice sitting with your thoughts, you practice sitting with your emotions, you just observe all of it happening without being too attached to it.You focus on your breathing, you focus on being present and centered in your body.And if you can do that over time, you're gonna start really rewiring your neural pathways.&nbsp;You'll start regulating your nervous system, and over time, you'll notice you have a full reset mind, body, and spirit.If you wanna see how I've helped hundreds of people do this, ​<a data-mce-href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au" href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here's a link to check out my Mind Launch Method.​</a>It's a three-step process: reprogram the mind, regulate the nervous system, and reset your life.Go check it out.&nbsp;Thanks for reading and I want you to know...You got this.With Optimism,JoshP.S. I also have a <a data-mce-href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au/free-training" href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au/free-training" target="_blank" rel="noopener">​free trauma healing framework on my website here​</a>, it's great for processing specific emotional triggers!

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Yesterday I had a call with a young man who reminded me of an earlier version of myself.He mentioned he had struggled with drugs and alcohol since being a teenager.He started having panic attacks and his anxiety has been getting progressively worse through his 20’s.He wasn’t able to hold down his job due to mental health issues.He had become addicted to substances as his coping mechanisms.He had mental health issues in his family.His social environment didn’t sound very healthy either.I’m writing this blog for him because I know that terrain all too well.It sounds almost identical to my own experience as a young man.Now I’m sure it’s NOT the same because everyone has their own unique experience with anxiety.However after working with 100’s of people struggling, I have started to recognise patterns.The same patterns show up over and over again.For men in their 20’s and 30’s, what you’ve just read is a common experience.I personally went through it and I’ve worked with dozens of young men in the same situation.This is not what happens to everyone but it is an experience I know a lot of people will resonate with.In this blog, I’m going to share exactly how I eliminated anxiety from my life coming from this type of experience earlier in life.<figure id="figure-jgjx5nzcosmhk05hht"><iframe id="jgjx5nzcosmhk05hht" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/okeC8DRUuZY" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" allowfullscreen="" data-url="https://youtu.be/okeC8DRUuZY" data-corners="default" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/okeC8DRUuZY" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></iframe></figure><h2>Deciding To Change</h2>The first part of the process for a person in this kind of situation is the DECISION to change.For the longest time, I didn’t change because I didn’t DECIDE to change.I was too comfortable in my social environment, drinking with my friends every weekend and to be honest, sometimes even having a really good time.It was fun.I can’t deny that.But come Monday morning (or Sunday night), I would feel like an anxious mess.<ul><li>I would hate myself.</li><li>I would struggle to sleep.</li><li>I would overthink everything.</li><li>I would doubt myself.</li><li>I would be constantly on edge.&nbsp;</li></ul>I didn’t know it was anxiety at the time but now I’m more aware of what anxiety is, I can say all of this were symptoms of anxiety that I didn’t know I had.All of these issues would lead to a poor quality of life during the week.I would be a very average worker.I would hate my job.I had no good routines.I was basically just surviving.<ul><li>I knew deep down that this wasn’t a good way to live.</li><li>I knew deep down that I had more potential.</li><li>I knew deep down that I needed to change.</li></ul>But for the life of me, I couldn’t bring myself to make the changes.I ended up distancing myself from my friends.I went travelling around the world to try and escape.But most of the time I’d just find new people to drink and party with.It was a vicious cycle that I was stuck in for close to 10 years.It caused me to fuck up all kinds of things in my life.<ul><li>I had panic attacks that made me physically sick.</li><li>I was concerned for my life.</li><li>I lost a few jobs.</li><li>I lost good relationships.</li><li>I was straight up unhealthy.</li></ul>I thought I was going crazy at times.That was not fun.It consumed my early twenties and really held me back from making any meaningful progress in my life back then.<h2>Learning to Meditate</h2>During all of this, I learned to meditate.&nbsp;It wasn’t easy in the beginning.I would get frustrated at myself.I would feel like an idiot.I would second guess myself.But I had read a blog post one day when I was about 17 years old that said if I meditate for a few years then I’d become a “superhuman”, so I stuck at it.I didn’t know it at the time but this practice would set me free.I learned some important things from my meditation practice.<ul><li>I learned to be disciplined and consistent.</li><li>I learned to detach myself from my thoughts.</li><li>I learned to process my difficult emotions.</li><li>I learned to accept my past and heal my trauma.</li><li>I learned to feel safe in my mind and body.</li><li>I learned to regulate my nervous system.</li><li>I learned to open up to my spiritual side.</li></ul>I didn’t realise it at the time but through my meditation practice... I was healing my trauma, I was regulating my nervous system and I was able to reframe my thoughts and beliefs.Meditation is so interesting because when you learn to quiet down your conscious thinking mind, it allows you to open up the subconscious emotional mind.When the subconscious mind opens up in meditation, you start having all these memories float to the surface of your awareness.When you’re in meditation and you have these memories “coming up” while you’re in this safe environment of mindfulness, it allows you to process things that have been left unresolved.This is actually why meditation can be so hard for people...Because they don’t know that’s what’s happening.Most people sit down to meditate, start feeling anxious, frustrated or annoyed and so they quit.Without knowing, those feelings that are coming up, are coming up to be resolved.They’re not coming up because something is wrong with you, they’re coming up because they need to come up for the healing process to take place.This is why meditation is so powerful when you learn to do it properly.This is why it's been such a healing practice for me and one that I am now so passionate about teaching others.This simple habit was a game changer that helped me build my self confidence up and start getting my life back on track.But I was still drinking and doing drugs…<h2>Going Sober</h2>In 2018, when I was 25 years old, I decided to go sober for 12-months.This was hands down the most transformative year of my life.I had tried to go sober before and I had done 1 month or 3 months but then I would always go back to drinking and doing drugs with the same kind of energy.I had a really bad relationship with drugs and alcohol.It runs in my family as well so I had this really warped idea about it.My poison of choice was really anything from alcohol to weed to mdma to cocaine and I also tried a wide range of psychedelics like acid and mushrooms.When I went sober for a year, I completely changed my relationship with substances.I also completely changed my relationship with myself.I used to use drugs and alcohol as some kind of courage booster or confidence booster.The funny thing was it never actually worked that well for my confidence because it wasn’t real, it was fake.So I would always end up worse when I wasn’t drinking or on drugs.Again, this fed a vicious cycle of self hatred and self doubt.When I went sober for the year, I was forced to confront all of my insecurities.I was forced to sit with the emotions I had been avoiding for so long.You know what the crazy thing was? My confidence skyrocketed.I won’t go into it too much but when I was in my late teens and early twenties, I didn’t have much luck with girls.When I went sober, I was going on more dates and talking to more girls than I had ever before.I was actually confident and it was showing in the way people were relating to me.Not just that, I felt confident. I felt truly comfortable in my own skin.This was a game changer for me.I’m 32 now with a wife and 2 kids.I run a successful business that’s helped 100’s of people.I’m living my purpose.I’m fit and healthy.That year of sobriety was the turning point that made all of this possible.Now I don’t have any significant anxiety.Anxiety still shows up from time to time because it’s normal for that to happen.All humans experience anxiety or anxiousness.That feeling of being a bit scared, stressed, nervous or worried.It’s a natural human experience.What I learned to do is just let it be without feeding the monster.I stopped getting involved in it.I learned to allow the thoughts and feelings to come and go so it’s not a problem anymore.Now I have more energy to focus on my goals and how I actually want to live my life.<h2>The Summary</h2>So to summarise everything I did to eliminate anxiety and tie this blog post up in a nice little conclusion, here’s a list…<ol><li>I had to DECIDE to make changes.</li><li>I learned to meditate, detach from thoughts &amp; emotions + heal trauma.</li><li>I stopped drinking and drugs that were harming my mind and body.</li><li>I worked on facing my insecurities from a place of sobriety.</li><li>I worked on building my confidence naturally.</li></ol>Finally, I was consistent. I’ve been doing this for 15 years now. Constantly improving myself day after day, week after week, month after month and year after year.Over the years, I’ve learned a lot more about nervous system regulation, reprogramming subconscious beliefs and healing trauma.&nbsp;Understanding these things is important (and I teach a lot of this in my coaching program).However when you boil it down to a clear focus on the solution that actually generates results...The solution is changing your habits and behaviors.Even when it comes to healing trauma, reprogramming your mind or regulating your nervous system, you need to implement certain habits and behaviours to do those things...If you have resistance to this idea, it’s your ego.Your ego will say “I’m special” or “I’m different” or “this won’t work for me”.You’re wrong.You may have a different situation to the one I’ve explained in this blog post but the solution is the sameThe same principles for healing apply to everyone.<ul><li>Stop doing stuff that makes you sick.</li><li>Start doing stuff that makes you healthy.</li></ul>Don’t buy into the mental stories you tell yourself (or others have told you) about your “trauma” or your “special situation” or how you’re “different”.These mental stories often do more harm than good.Focus on the road ahead.&nbsp;Not the road behind.After working with 300+ coaching clients, I can confidently say, anxiety can be solved with this approach.I don’t think it needs to take you 10 years like it took me, but that long-term mindset does help if you want to make sustainable change.In my experience working with 100’s of different people, we can reduce the time to get your anxiety under control to within 3-6 months.It took me a long time because I figured it all out by myself.I didn’t have any help.You can do it on your own if you want.There’s plenty of helpful free content on my blog page and social media.But if you want a proven and tested pathway to eliminate anxiety and find peace within the next few months (and have accountability to stick with the process), I have developed a program that does just that.If you’d like to learn more about my Mind Launch Method, <a data-mce-href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au" href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au" target="_blank" rel="noopener">you can check out the short 5-minute explainer video on my website here</a>.Whatever you decide to do, I want you to know...You got this.With Optimism,Josh

This is EXACTLY how I eliminated anxiety from my life

Hey guys, it’s Josh here.In this blog, I'll share 3 Proven Steps to End Anxiety FOR GOOD.If this speaks to you then you’ve probably been trying to figure this anxiety thing out for a while now.You’ve been to the doctors, the psychologists, the therapists and you've done your own self analysis to try and get to the bottom of these weird anxiety symptoms you’re having.Maybe you’ve even started labelling yourself with words that end with “phobia”, you’ve started using words like “dissassociation”, “depersonalisation” or “derealisation”.You’ve got physical symptoms like heart rate increase, sweating, change in skin colour particularly in your face, gut issues, turning stomach and all the rest of it.You’ve gone to the doctors to try and find solutions but all tests come back clear.This is sending you into a mental spiral of negative thoughts and emotions.You’re either avoiding the issue and trying to resist it or push it away… kinda like you’re frozen or “stuck”.OR&nbsp;It’s leading you to become reactive, frustrated, impatient and low key angry.Maybe both…You could be keeping it together in your professional life, you’re still able to show up to work and “get things done”...But when it comes to your personal life, your relationships and your health, you feel a bit fucked.All of this can fall under one umbrella category of “Anxiety”.And if this resonates with you then it’s likely this issue is starting to create some problems for you.So if you’re new here then let me introduce myself.<h2>Who Am I?</h2>My name is Josh and I have a lot of mental health issues and addiction in my family.Anxiety and addiction are both something I struggled with earlier in my life.I was anxious and then I would lean on drugs and alcohol to cope with everything.Which was basically just a form of suppression.Now I’ve got both of those issues under control.I no longer get anxiety and I have found freedom from my addictions.In this video I’m going to show you the <a data-mce-href="https://youtu.be/rxL_ZbayUMM" href="https://youtu.be/rxL_ZbayUMM" target="_blank" rel="noopener">3 proven steps to end anxiety for good.</a><figure id="figure-kjozqcj6jgmhedq9u7" class=""><iframe id="kjozqcj6jgmhedq9u7" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/rxL_ZbayUMM" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" allowfullscreen="" data-url="https://youtu.be/rxL_ZbayUMM" data-corners="default" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/rxL_ZbayUMM" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></iframe></figure>When I was 17, I was scared of myself, I was scared of my mind and I was scared of my life.I didn’t have much self control and this made me afraid.I thought to myself “I can’t live like this”.So I started a mission to figure out how I could get my mind under controlI went deep into understanding how my mind works, how &nbsp;my nervous system works and what anxiety is (and what it’s not).I didn’t want to go on medication like my parents and I didn’t want to become addicted or reliant on any substance whether that be alcohol or medications…<h2>Here’s What I Found.</h2>One of the biggest things that can help you with ending anxiety for good is simply a good education about yourself, your mind and your body.Once you understand yourself, you can understand your anxiety.I realised that anxiety is really just a fear response and it’s your body perceiving danger (often when there is no danger)If you experience high levels of anxiety then your nervous system has been conditioned into fear, danger and a sense of not being safe.People with chronic anxiety also have thought patterns that contribute to this sense of not being safe.Thoughts like “I’m not good enough”, “there’s something wrong with me” or “I’m broken”.These kinds of thoughts only add to the feeling of danger.Your brain sends signals to your body through the nervous system and the thought signals influence hormone production which creates stress chemicals like cortisol and adrenaline.This response sends signals back to the brain convincing the brain it’s in danger and needs to activate survival mechanisms.You quickly enter into the fight or flight mode of the nervous system and you will either ‘freeze”, 'fight” or 'flight” (avoid).Developing a deep understanding of how all of this works is incredibly helpful.Through understanding and education, you can build a plan for recovery and healing.This leads us to the 3 proven steps to end anxiety for good.<h2>The Mind Launch Method&nbsp; </h2><h3>Regulate&nbsp;</h3>Consciously work on regulating your nervous system with daily habits proven to reduce stress and anxiety.Habits like…<ul><li>Walking</li><li>Meditation</li><li>Journalling</li></ul>Build a daily routine around these habits.<h3>Reprogram</h3>Consciously work on reprogramming your mind and changing negative beliefs into positive beliefs.You can do this daily through your meditation and journaling practices.You can also do this in the moment through the Letting Go MethodAn easy way to remember this is calling it the AAA method (like a sigh, aaa)Acknowledge - Acknowledge and label the experience you’re having “this is anxiety”Accept - Accept the experience you’re having and accept the feelings you’re havingAllow - Allow yourself to go through the feeling of anxiety instead of fighting against itEverytime you do this, you are teaching your nervous system to feel safe and you’re training your mind to think about the anxiety in a different way.Over time, you build a whole new nervous system with new neural pathways.<h2>Reset</h2>Finally, you reset your life.You consciously carry on with life and you re-engage with your life in a new way. Everyday you make the conscious choice to reinforce your new normal.The 4th Step that nobody talks about… RelapseThe journey of anxiety recovery usually has relapses but nobody likes to talk about this because they’re trying to sell you some magic quick fix.The truth is, you will probably have relapses.You’ll probably have days when you feel like you’re going backwards, not forward.This is normal and it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you.In fact, these days are the days that really count for your long term healing.You have to learn to hold yourself through these times and continue to reinforce the new belief system that “you got this” and you are on the journey of healing.The relapse is kinda like the “Final Boss”.When you learn to navigate the relapse days, you’ll start to develop a level of confidence that is “unfuckwithable”.So don’t cave to the relapse, instead, reframe it and tell yourself a story about how this experience is making you stronger.When &nbsp;you get these 3 proven steps down and you make them your priority every single day, you’ll accelerate your journey of healing and you’ll start to get your life back.<h2>Want More Help?</h2>If you’d like some extra support and accountability to start making these changes faster with our Mind Launch coaching program... <a data-mce-href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au" href="http://www.mindlaunch.com.au" target="_blank" rel="noopener">You can watch the video on our website here.</a>That explains next steps to get started.You got this!With Optimism,Josh

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